Not Every Kid Gets Potty Trained at Age 2 — At Least Not Mine

– Posted in: Autism -- The Handbook, Autism Recovery, Parenting, Poop, Potty Training, Solicited Advice, Worst Mom Randomness

Many weeks ago, I promised to write a post on potty training. You guys should know by now that I never do anything on time, so hopefully you weren't holding your breath. Anyway, yesterday I got this message on my Facebook page: I have a 27-month-old boy that I am potty training, and when I [...]

Helping Your Kid Out of Autism — The Preschool Post

– Posted in: Autism -- The Handbook, Autism Recovery, Newt, Newt's Story, Parenting, Personal Insanity, School, Solicited Advice, Worrying
Newt, age 3, coming out of school.

More tales from the autism front. Today's questions come from the mother of "Tara," a 3-and-a-half year old who was just diagnosed. Keep in mind that I've never met these people, so I'm basically just relaying what we did in these same situations. Our son, Newt, was diagnosed with high-functioning autism at the same age and [...]

Schools and (Lack of) ABA Therapy — What We Think Helped Our Son with Autism

– Posted in: Autism -- The Handbook, Autism Recovery, Newt's Story, Parenting, Personal Insanity, School
Newt at 3

So last week, I wrote about what my son, Newt, was like as a young child and what led us to get him tested for autism. This week, I'll give you the not-so-brief rundown of what we ended up doing for school and what we didn't do for therapy. On the day he was diagnosed [...]

The First Signs — How We Figured Out Our Son Had Autism

– Posted in: Autism -- The Handbook, Autism Recovery, Newt's Story, Personal Insanity
Baby Newt with teething toy

So for whatever reason -- search engines, moving to Wordpress, tiny elves -- I've recently gotten several inquiries about my son, Newt, and all the autism stuff we went through with him in his "youth." He's now 10. So old. I've been wanting to write the story of what happened with Newt for a long time, [...]

Peeling the Onion, Part 5: Desperation and the Autism Parent

– Posted in: Autism -- The Handbook, Autism Recovery, Newt, Newt's Story, Personal Insanity

This is an ongoing series about my 8-year-old son, Newt, who was diagnosed with high-functioning autism when he was three. Since that time, he's tested off the spectrum. We think some of this is why. . .Okay, I'm going to try to make this quick because I've sort of been feeling like crap. Which kind [...]

Peeling the Onion, Part 4: For Autistic Kids, It’s all in the Details

– Posted in: Autism -- The Handbook, Autism Recovery, Newt, Newt's Story, Personal Insanity

This is an ongoing series about my 8-year-old son, Newt, who was diagnosed with high-functioning autism when he was three. Since that time, he's tested off the spectrum. We think some of this is why. . . So yesterday I was at my friend's house -- the friend who basically got our family in the [...]

Peeling the Onion, Part 3: Get of the Autism Comfort Cocoon

– Posted in: Autism -- The Handbook, Autism Recovery, Newt, Newt's Story, Parenting, Personal Insanity

This is an ongoing series about my 8-year-old son, Newt, who was diagnosed with high-functioning autism when he was three. Since that time, he's tested off the spectrum. We think some of this is why. . .One of the first things you hear about autistic children is that they're "inflexible." There are stories upon horror [...]

Peeling the Onion, Part 2 — Autism Therapies that Don’t Work

– Posted in: Autism -- The Handbook, Autism Recovery, Newt's Story, Parenting, Personal Insanity

So last week I started a series called Peeling the Onion. I'm hoping it'll actually force me to start writing about how we helped our son, Newt, with his high-functioning autism (I've started this project several times and I always screw it up). Why "peeling the onion?" It seems like an appropriate description for a [...]

Peeling The Onion, Part 1 — Step Away from the TV

– Posted in: Autism -- The Handbook, Autism Recovery, Newt, Newt's Story, Parenting, Personal Insanity

Some of you know that my 8-year-old son, Newt, was diagnosed with high-functioning autism/Asperger's syndrome when he was 3. He's since tested off the spectrum, and at age 6, we held our breath as he walked into 1st grade without anyone knowing his history. It's pretty much been business as usual for the last two [...]

The Space Between

– Posted in: Autism -- The Handbook, Autism Recovery, Family, Growing Up, Holidays, Newt, Newt's Story, Parenting, Personal Insanity, Sappy Tammy, Time

I got really weepy in Costco today. Why? Because I walked by the Toy Story 3 display and saw the montage of the character "Andy" as a little kid, playing with Woody and Buzz. This made me think about the part when Andy grows up, turns into a teenager, and leaves for college. Which in [...]