Give the Gift of No Guilt

– Posted in: Guilt, Holidays, Tammy Thinks
Give the Gift of No Guilt

We've entered the season of giving -- that time when we try to focus on others. On family. On friends. It's also the season of guilt. I'm fortunately in place where my holiday plans are pretty easy (I know, don't hate). That's what happens when your mom dies and your dad runs off on a [...]

Worst Moms Moment: I Swear I am Not a Kidnapper

– Posted in: Guilt, Life is Dangerous, Misunderstandings, No Good Deed, Worrying, Worst Mom Moments
Kids chase a bubble at a park

When I read this Worst Moms Moment from Ginger at Spicey Mom, my heart dropped into my stomach. That's all I'm going to give you -- read for yourselves... ******** I am sure that every parent, from day one, imagines the worst case scenario of losing their child. Sickness, SIDS, accidents, kidnapping, you name it, [...]

Friday Fiction Part 18: Eric Wakes Up

– Posted in: Depression, Guilt, Novel in Progress, Tammy Thinks, Worst Mom Randomness, Writing
Bertrum, the yellow and blue eyed white cat

The saga continues -- we're still in the early 1990's. The Wongs are all meeting up in San Francisco, and Eric has taken refuge with Frangelica after his horrible run-in with Simon.  Want to catch up (of course you do)? You can start at the beginning here, or get a list of everything here. ******** Eric could [...]

The Best Mother’s Day Present? It’s Over.

– Posted in: Family, Grief, Grown-up Friends, Guilt, Holidays, Logan's Story, Momless, Personal Insanity, Stuff I Probably Shouldn't be Thinkin', Tammy Thinks, Worst Mom Randomness
mom with son and daughter at brunch on Mother's Day

So Mother's Day is over, and all I can say is, thank the gods. I know most moms look forward to Mother's Day. Probably because they're normal and well-adjusted people who are totally chill about spending a nice Sunday with family, getting an over-priced piece of jewelry designed by Jane Seymour, and maybe going out [...]

Guilt 101, Brought to You by the 8-year-old

– Posted in: Elfie, Grown-up Friends, Guilt, Mouths of Babes, Personal Insanity, The Kids are Killing Me, Worst Mom Randomness
Elfie's Guilty-the-Mommy Note

So last night, my husband, Tenzin, and I went out to dinner. Grown-up dinner with friends. And a play. We basically have no social life, so this was a big deal for us. For better or worse (most likely worse -- we'll see in a few years when I get a call from their therapists), [...]

Thumbs Down

– Posted in: Guilt, Mouths of Babes, Worst Mom Moments

Verity, of The State of Being Real, is back with a cautionary tale. Maybe this is the real reason why somebody came up with the idea for pacifiers.I can remember the day at 5 months old - look, how cute - she found her thumb! I even have a picture. . .Photo by VerityI will [...]

Only the Lonely

– Posted in: Guilt, Worst Mom Moments

Mommy2¢ is back with a list of questions. She wants to know if she's alone in her misery, weirdness, and general snarkiness. You can catch up with the rest of her goings-on at her blog, Mommy2¢.There are so many times in a day I think to myself “Am I the only one…”Am I the only [...]

Oh How I Disappoint Thee. . . Let Me Count the Ways

– Posted in: Guilt, Injuries, School, Thank God Your Father's Home, This Is Supposed to be Fun, Worst Mom Moments

Meet Mommy2¢. She's compiled an entire list of reasons why she's the World's Worst Mom to her 4 and 6-year-old kids. You can read about all of her other shortcomings and other riotous stuff at her blog, Mommy2¢.I’ve done a real bang-up job in the past couple weeks as a parent. I wish I were [...]