Category Archives: Parenting

Friday Fiction Part 16: The Ties That Bind

The story continues — we’re back in the early 1990′s. Peter has already left Eric and Kauai after his father came and “collected” him. Now Peter is going to Stanford Law School and dating Jen. Want to catch up? You can start at the beginning here. Or get a list of everything here. Or go…

My Name’s Tammy and I’m a Cake Froster-holic

DIY Thomas Train snowy winter cake with toy trains

So just to solidly make the case that I’m absolutely off my rocker, I’m sharing the following. Actually, let me back up. Over the last couple of days, I posted some pictures of the cupcakes I helped make for a school fundraiser, and people have made some lovely comments about my decorating abilities. The thing…

Helping Your Kid Out of Autism — The Preschool Post

Newt, age 3, coming out of school.

More tales from the autism front. Today’s questions come from the mother of “Tara,” a 3-and-a-half year old who was just diagnosed. Keep in mind that I’ve never met these people, so I’m basically just relaying what we did in these same situations. Our son, Newt, was diagnosed with high-functioning autism at the same age and…

When Barbie Looks Fat and Frumpy, You Know We’re in Trouble

monster-high-dolls

I was in Target today, just cruising because I’d hit one of those dead-time points in the day when you can’t go home but it’s too early to pick up the kids, and I found myself in the toy section (for reasons I myself still can’t understand). Anyway, I was checking out the Monster High…

Kids Know Awards for Everyone are Stupid. Because They’re not Stupid.

kids_thumbs_up

The kids turned in their science fair projects last week. Neither of them made it to “the big show,” but that wasn’t a huge surprise. They’ve historically driven me nuts by procrastinating for two months, deciding last minute that they want to do a “great job,” and then getting angry because they didn’t get chosen. I…

Fiction Friday Part 9: The Pickup

San Francisco International Airport

We’re catching up with “young” Eric again this week. Hopefully he wasn’t permanently scarred by his experience in Thailand. If you really want to get all the down and dirty details, you should start at the beginning. But here’s a bit of what’s happened so far: Peter is married with children. What his wife doesn’t know is…

Even the the Crappy Moments on Facebook are Fake — And that’s “Fine”

Like this -- sure he's a mess. But look how cute he is.

Ever since that study came out about Facebook making people depressed, I’ve read many a blog and Facebook post professing the need to “get real” about our lives. In the most recent article, “We Need to Quit Telling Lies on Facebook” on Kveller.com, Sarah Emily Tuttle-Singer writes about her “real” Saturday with the kids, not the cleaned-up, Instagram-filtered…

Quvenzhané Wallis Isn’t a C*nt, but She is a Brat

Talk to My Agent Shirt

I can’t believe I’m writing another post about that stupid Onion tweet… First of all, let me just clarify that in no way do I condone someone calling a 9-year-old the c-word. A little kid shouldn’t be anywhere in the vicinity of the c-word. Hell, I don’t even like being in the vicinity of the…

Schools and (Lack of) ABA Therapy — What We Think Helped Our Son with Autism

Newt at 3

So last week, I wrote about what my son, Newt, was like as a young child and what led us to get him tested for autism. This week, I’ll give you the not-so-brief rundown of what we ended up doing for school and what we didn’t do for therapy. On the day he was diagnosed…

Worst Mom Moment: When Good Skiing Goes Bad

Photo by Lindy

I’m so psyched (I know, I sound like a teenager from 1985, but I am indeed psyched) to be introducing you to Lindy. She’s a mom from my neck of the woods, only she’s one of the cool kids who gets to live in Tahoe (there I go with the high school thing again). Apparently…