Some of you know that my 8-year-old son, Newt, was diagnosed with high-functioning autism/Asperger's syndrome when he was 3. He's since tested off the spectrum, and at age 6, we held our breath as he walked into 1st grade without anyone knowing his history. It's pretty much been business as usual for the last two [...]
The Space Between
December 9, 2010 – Posted in: Autism -- The Handbook, Autism Recovery, Family, Growing Up, Holidays, Newt, Newt's Story, Parenting, Personal Insanity, Sappy Tammy, TimeI got really weepy in Costco today. Why? Because I walked by the Toy Story 3 display and saw the montage of the character "Andy" as a little kid, playing with Woody and Buzz. This made me think about the part when Andy grows up, turns into a teenager, and leaves for college. Which in [...]
Just Another Day on the High Wire
September 22, 2010 – Posted in: Autism Recovery, Chronic Pain, Crazy Tammy, Depression, Family, Grown-up Friends, Mawage, Momless, Newt's Story, Parenting, Personal InsanitySo at the risk of bringing everyone down, I'm having a rough day. Couple of days. Actually, make that a couple of weeks.Even if you know me personally, you most likely have no idea that I've been having a rough time. Because that's what I do. I just power through. I take the kids to [...]
Directions Out of Oz
September 17, 2010 – Posted in: Autism -- The Handbook, Autism Recovery, Newt's Story, Parenting, Personal Insanity, SchoolI was talking to my mother-in-law the other day, and she was telling me about their visit with -- follow me here -- my husband's cousin's daughter who has ADHD (hey, at least I didn't throw in step-son's ex-wife's dog). Anyway, my mother-in-law suggested that we -- my husband, Tenzin, and I -- might be [...]
The Not-So-Quick Fix
August 25, 2010 – Posted in: Autism -- The Handbook, Autism Recovery, Newt's Story, Parenting, Personal InsanityUgh, I'm gonna make some people mad with this one.But first, a story. Right before dinner last night, my husband, Tenzin, told the kids to go and get their own drinks. Then he told them again. They were playing, so of course they didn't move. Due to the fact I didn't want them to be [...]
Cereal Killer
August 6, 2010 – Posted in: Autism Recovery, Chronic Pain, Cranky Tammy, Depression, Momless, Money, Newt's Story, Parenting, Personal Insanity, The Kids are Killing Me, Working for PayI've had one of those weeks where you sort of feel like a really bad traveling carnival -- the kids look at you and think you should be fun, but when in comes down to it, you're actually just a bunch of thinly spread out rides that need paint, could breakdown at any moment, and [...]
The Crumb Doesn’t Fall Far from the Waffle
April 26, 2010 – Posted in: Autism -- The Handbook, Autism Recovery, Newt, Newt's Story, Parenting, Personal InsanityI made an Eggo today, and it ended up looking like this:Possible broken toaster and my lack of cooking skills aside, the most disturbing part of this story is that I was sitting 15 feet away while my waffle was smoking and turning to charcoal, and I didn't even notice. I'm guessing this does not [...]
Because I Said So
March 10, 2010 – Posted in: Autism -- The Handbook, Autism Recovery, Newt's Story, Parenting, Personal Insanity, Worst Mom RantsI just saw the second episode of Parenthood. Watching the couple whose son has Asperger's was, well, painful. And not because I was having flashbacks about when Newt was diagnosed with autism or because I related to their journey in any way. It was painful because -- and this is going to sound so Judgy [...]
A Simple Plan
March 5, 2010 – Posted in: Autism -- The Handbook, Autism Recovery, Newt's Story, Parenting, Personal Insanity, Worst Mom RantsTenzin and I watched the premier of Parenthood last night. Other than the fact that it was a giant ad for Nissan, it was a good show. And they're not shying away from the hard stuff. In the first episode, they were already taking on autism. Crazy bastards.From the start of the show, 8-year-old Max [...]
The Little Bang Theory
January 21, 2010 – Posted in: Autism Recovery, Newt's Story, Parenting, Personal InsanityI've been lying around all day, sick with a cold, and I made the mistake of spending most of my time cruising the internets. I spent at least an hour searching for Chinese New Year party favors and another hour trying to figure out how to put better ads on my blog (and succeeded at [...]
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